Hi Loren - good to see you've found a great doctor at BNH! I had my son Lawrie at BNH last July - which was a great experience - and most importantly, was contrary to what I'd heard leading up to the delivery. Our doctor was Dr Wiboon (who's a bit older than Dr Vorachai) and heads up the Women's Centre. We connected with him really well, after some earlier experiences (pre-pregnancy) I'd had with one of the 'more mature' female doctors at BNH. Finding him was a stroke of luck as I selected him from photos on the BNH website, on the basis that he'd worked outside Thailand and therefore may understand weird farang women a bit more than the previous doctor I had encountered. I too am in my early 40s and, despite being described on every form as an 'elderly primigravidae', which I objected to several times to the great amusement of everyone concerned, I was able to overcome early concerns we had about whether this was the right doctor and the right hospital for us. About 4-6 weeks before Lawrie was born, we used our birth plan to really drive home what we did and didn't want with Dr Wiboon (who annotated it in Thai in our file) - glad we did as it uncovered a number of differences of opinion that may have arisen by the time we got to the labour room, especially around when/how to administer pain relief, how we wanted our doula, Sue, to be involved (a v novel concept for Dr Wiboon, a first time for him I think) etc. Dr Wiboon was also really proactive in using the birth plan as a tool to ensure his other colleagues (our now paediatrician and the anaesthsiologist) understood what we wanted for our natural birth and we had separate meetings with them to discuss these. We were really impressed by the fact that by the time we reached the labour room, the staff on duty had also read our file and could quote bits of the birth plan to us! The labour room team were also really open to working alongside Sue, our doula - again a first time experience for them resulting in some great teamwork over 8 hours! In the end, I had to have an emergency c-section - but that was only after I got stuck at 8cm for 4hrs at which point Lawrie's fetal heart rate dropped and Dr Wiboon felt there was absolutely no way a natural birth was possible. All the staff involved were really disappointed for me as I was wheeled off into surgery but it was the right call and there was a small cheer when the squalling screaming Lawrie finally made his entrance into the world (especially by one of our labour room nurses who stayed with me during the surgery even though her shift was over). Whilst I was really disappointed at not having the natural birth we'd planned for, we have nothing but happy memories and praise for the care we received at BNH. I could go on and on... Happy to talk to you separately about this if there's anything else you'd like to know. Best of luck for August, Fiona